Saturday, April 20, 2013

BEDA #20 - friends who fight

BEDA #20
Date: 20th April 2013

i came out with a saying today...
i will not say it's mine just because others may have said it...
it goes something like this...
"True friends are not friends who never fight but friends who fight but make up every time"

i know it's a bit weird to think this
but i feel like if friends/couples fight and make it through,
they will have a stronger relationship...
better than those who never fight
i feel this way because every person is different and there are times when just understanding does not cut it...
they will need to fight it out and get it clear their stand...
that way, the other person not only understands but respects your ideal and accepts it (whether incline to it or agree to disagree)...
and if with more understanding and respect, your friendship will get stronger because you are not just plainly, blindly understanding but knowing why they are that way...
you will get to the bottom of it...

also, it's best if they could make up without apologizing because both of them understand that the other is unintentional...
but if one is humble enough to apologize, it shows that their friendship mean something and they would put themselves to save their friendship...

think about it...
like Blair and Serena...
they fight all the time
and that made them better friends...

also, like siblings...
they fight all the time...
and this made them love each other more and will protect each other...
similarly to friends...

think about it...
let's argue it out...

yours truly,
J


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