what if i was blind...

hey blog buddies,

today's blog is not really thought provoking but just a little sharing of experience...
what if the signs were there all along when we were still together but i just refused to see it...
i wanted some one who could actually love my parents as well, ya'know...

signs i shouldn't have ignored:

1. she wasn't comfortable when i said i wanted to see her parents (you know, to ask official permission and blessing)
2. she got kinda mad when i can't spend Valentine's with her but spent it with my mum instead... (come on man, i'll be happy if my partner loves her parent cos it will come back to our kids)
3. she was reluctant when my parents were around and wanted to meet...
4. she doesn't really like you respect her... (i didn't want to start touching, or even hold hands, before i get her parents' blessing)

so, here were the signs i shouldn't have ignored...

and here's a little to you guys...

if your partner can't love your parents, and doesn't let you love theirs, 

you know it's a recipe for a bad relationship...

learn from my mistakes and do not (at least try not) make the same mistakes...

-J